单身这么久不结婚又怎样？这位“冻龄女神”教科书级的霸气回答火了！

前不久，47岁的“冻龄女神”俞飞鸿上了热搜。这回，她圈粉了一大波年轻人。

话题源于她在两年前做客谈话节目《锵锵三人行》的视频被网友翻了出来，没想到一下子火了。

节目里，主持人窦文涛和嘉宾冯唐向俞飞鸿抛出了关于女性婚恋的犀利问题。

比如，“为什么单身那么久”、“一个人不孤独吗”，以及一些大家眼里“大龄女青年”和所谓“剩女”都会面对的问题。

而俞飞鸿的回答，可以说是实力诠释了什么叫酷，什么叫潇洒。

Chinese actress Yu Feihong, also known as Faye Yu, has recently become a big topic of discussion on Chinese social media for her refreshing perspective on marriage and singlehood. The 47-year-old unmarried celebrity was previously on various Chinese talk shows hosted by male presenters, who questioned the actress about her single status. 

“是否单身”对俞飞鸿来说并不是个问题。 她的回答不卑不亢，让人心服口服。单身或结婚，是个人选择，她表示，“我觉得哪个更舒适，就处在哪个阶段。” 

"Why do you stay single for so long at such an age?" TV host Dou Wentao recently asked 40-something Chinese actress Yu Feihong on his talk show. The actress answered, "It is not difficult to choose to stay single or get married. If I feel more comfortable single, I will stay single, and vice versa." 

到了一定年龄，如果还是单身狗，很多人尤其是长辈们，就会觉得你“不正常”。

面对主持人更为“犀利”的问题，俞飞鸿淡然一笑，说出的回答又稳赢了。

她说，如果精神世界足够富足，一个人待着也同样愉快。“身边许多男性朋友也是单身，但精神世界都很丰富。我觉得这个不能单独把男性女性分离开，就是女性单身就会不正常吗？我不觉得。”

The host continued, "Do you think a person is mentally normal if he or she stays single for a long time?" Ironically, the male host himself has never been married and is around four years older than the actress. The actress smiled and replied, "I have many friends that stay single, and most of them have an abundant spiritual world. They are not lonely mentally."

这个问题就没有“男女之别”了。一个人的生活难免会无聊吧？而且会不会觉得不方便？

很多人可能都觉得，如果有伴侣，你做个菜，我洗个碗什么的，有事时可以让对象帮忙搭把手啊，多方便。

不过俞飞鸿的回答很肯定，“我没觉得这是个问题。”一个人也可以活的好好的啊~

Feng Tang asked her about being single: “But you won’t finish a bottle of wine alone, and if you order food, two dishes might be too much but one dish is never enough. Aren’t you bothered by these kinda things?” Faye responds: “I really don’t have any problems with that.”

虽然单身，但是你当真就一点都不想结婚？ 

主持人继续出招，而俞飞鸿也接的相当利落。

在俞飞鸿眼中，“两个人也有两个人的孤独”，而这种孤独“可能比一个人的孤独更悲伤”。

无论是恋爱还是婚姻，都强迫不来。能做到顺其自然，水到渠成，才是最好的心态。

到底为什么结婚？结婚有什么好处？对此，冯唐也给出了他的答案，对比之下就有种“无可奈何”的感觉了。

听到男士的回答，俞飞鸿反问：“为什么从你们男人的角度，结婚对女人都是一种施舍呢？”

Faye Yu said, “Listening to you guys talking, there’s one thing I don’t get – why, from a man’s point of view, is marrying something you seem to do out of some sort of charity for women?”

独而不孤，也就是说虽然一个人，但却不孤独。或许，能做到这点才能做到真正“独立”吧。

而俞飞鸿就做到了。对于结婚，她表示自己并非是所谓“独身主义”或“不婚主义”。

“我只想说，没那么着急去选择，到什么年龄就必须要有一个实际的婚姻。”

俞飞鸿这次访谈豁达洒脱，网友纷纷为她点赞，直呼这样的三观又正又酷。

Over the past few days, thousands of people on Weibo comment on Yu’s attitude and previous interviews. Many of them are young and female.

“There is no age one should get married, there’s just an age one feels they should get married” , Weibo blogger Yan Wangye writes. “I am rooting for Yu Feihong, she expresses my feelings!”, a typical comment says. “She’s just cool. Beautiful and cool,” others say. But there are also many men responding to the topic. Famous designer ‘Teacher Kevin’ says: “I really appreciate Yu Feihong’s attitude on marriage: marriage is not a woman’s necessity. To be married or to be single is a personal choice, completely depending on what makes you more comfortable.”

是的，不得不承认，如今已经47岁的俞飞鸿，确实活出了“岁月静好、美人惊鸿”的气质。

能活得这么“通透”，当然也因为她是一路打拼过来的。

Yu Feihong has been in the Chinese showbusiness since she was a child and has starred in dozens of movies since. Outside of China, she is mostly known for her role in the Joy Luck Club (1993). Many of these movies are about romance, and her own love life has been a topic of interest for Chinese journalists for years, especially because Yu is known as China’s “most beautiful woman above the age of 40.”

在杭州读了一年大学后，俞飞鸿考入北京电影学院。

大三的时候，她被好莱坞华裔导演王颖选中，出演了电影《喜福会》。

她当年在电视剧《小李飞刀》中扮演的“惊鸿仙子”，一颦一笑都让人念念不忘。

她也在《天与地》中和刘德华演过对手戏。

大学毕业后，俞飞鸿决定去美国留学。她说因为“一个是特别想学好英语，还有另一个就是自由度。”

2007年的电影《千年敬祈》中，俞飞鸿的英文表演自然流利，语音语调都让人听着舒服。大家感受下~↓

2016年的影片《东方战场》，俞飞鸿在剧里扮演宋美龄，也有英语台词↓

回国后，俞飞鸿出演了当年的热播电视剧《牵手》，虽然是“小三”的角色，却因神演技收获了观众好评。

在事业如日中天的时候，俞飞鸿却决定去当导演，执导完成了处女座《爱有来生》，还在片中一人分饰两角。

后来，无论是演专横毒辣的女军官，还是在近两年的作品《小丈夫》里，与小她16岁的杨玏飚感情戏，她都游刃有余。

俞飞鸿并非时常出现在大家的视野里，常常“淡出荧屏”，那是因为她有她自己的节奏。

关于“红不红”，在2017年的《十三邀》访谈中，她坚定的说：“我不关心红不红，那些问题从来没困扰我，我关心的是我的生活，我的心境，我有没有成长。”

“美人在骨不在皮”。

俞飞鸿有颜，更有一个让人欣赏的灵魂。

落落大方，从容优雅。她活出了真我，也美得“高级”。

这样的女性，足够被大家称为“女神”了吧。

综合来源：whatsonweibo.com，BBC中文网，环球时报英文版，视觉志

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